Keep My Child Safe Software gathers information and retrieves data that will assist police to captives in investigating a kidnapping, abduction, Runaway or lost or injured child.  It Is the Purpose of Keep My Child Safe Software that parents will input pictures, physical descriptions, identifiable marks, school and afterschool activities, a phone log of the child's friends, persons allowed to pick up the child from school, and an indication of any previous kidnappings or abductions.  Keep my Child safe software is designed to work in conjunction with law enforcement agencies to issue an Amber alert or missing child report.
When the child disappears or goes missing, Keep My Child Safe Software gathers critical information necessary for a missing child report or to issue an Amber alert.  A picture of the child, a physical description, emergency contacts, a phone log of friends and a list of afterschool activities highlight the information retrieval process that helps to create a safety net for a child.  In the majority of cases, the kidnapper is someone that the child or parents trust.  For that reason, parents need to be teaching child safety that is more than just staying away from strangers.  Child safety is the responsibility of every parent and every teacher.
There are different types of abductions.  A family abduction occurs when an individual between birth and 17 years of age is abducted from his or her custodial parent or legal guardian by a noncustodial family member who is related to the child by blood or marriage.  This type of the production occurs when parents are divorced or legally separated usually.
A non-family abduction occurs when a child, age 17 or younger, is abducted by someone who was unknown to the child or to his or her family, an acquaintance, or someone who is identifiable as either.



Child Safety Tips In the Home from Keep My Child Safe Software

Be Aware of Your Child's Friends

•Know your child’s friends and their families. Get to know their names, their addresses, phone numbers, etc.  You can store all of this information in Keep My Child Safe Software for easy retrieval.

•Before you allow your child to go to the home of one of their friends, you should learn who lives in the house or visits frequently.

•Before you allow your child to stay for the weekend at a friend’s home you should know who will be caring for the child.   If the parents will be gone at any time, will there be a babysitter?  You should familiarize yourself with the area so you know how to get there or how give directions to another party if necessary.

•Prior to allowing a child to visit an unfamiliar friend's home without you, make it a point to get to know the friend and his or her parents.  With younger children, it may be appropriate to accompany your child on the first visit, to become acquainted with the child, his or her parent(s) and their habits/rules.
 

Be Aware of Your Child's Daily Schedule
•Familiarize yourself with your child’s schedule. Know where and how they spend their day.  Keep My Child Safe Software help you store information about the child's school, principal, teacher, bus number, afterschool activities for each day of the week, clubs and organizations.

•Know your child’s preferred route to school, playground, store, etc.

•Make sure that your child knows they can call you at any time if plans have changed or if they need you to pick them up.  If they feel ill, make sure that they have an emergency contact number or cell phone number for you.

•Make sure schools, daycares, babysitters, etc., have updated relevant information on you including pick-up person, contact information, current address, vacations planned, etc.  Your school is eligible for a free version Of Keep My Child Safe Software that will list all of the pertinent information for every child in the school.

•Ensure that your child's school administration, as a matter of policy, contacts you immediately if your child does not appear at school.  In addition, make sure that they have a copy of your list of persons allowed to pick up the child from school from Keep My Child Safe Software.


Do Not Hesitate to Do a Background Check Or Ask for References

•Do a background check on babysitters, daycares, after school programs, camps, etc., before registering your child.

•Ask for references.  Before you trust your child to a new situation such as a new camp or a new babysitter, request references.  A reputable person will not mind furnishing references since the understand your need to keep your child safe.

•Tactfully make unannounced visits.

•When using a babysitter in your home, there should be rules that every babysitter will follow.  Ensure that he or she knows:

1. Your expectations, including duties and responsibilities.
2. Family rules and daily routines, including eating and sleeping arrangements.
3. How you can be contacted. Write down: Where you will be (including the address and telephone number) and your cellular telephone and/or pager number.


When you leave the home, babysitters should be instructed to:

1. Keep all outside doors locked.
2. Never open the door to anyone, unless you have given prior permission.
3. Never volunteer information over the telephone. (They should say that you are home but unable to come to the telephone.)
4. Watch the children closely while awake, especially if taken outside.
5. Check children regularly after they have gone to sleep.

•Talk to your children about what happened while you were gone (after the babysitter has left.)
Did anything make them feel uncomfortable or afraid?

Preventing Child Abduction is Your Responsibility

What are the most important things parents should tell children about safety?

•Always check first with a parent, guardian, or trusted adult before going anywhere, accepting anything, or getting into a car with anyone.
•Do not go out alone. Always take a friend with when going places or playing outside.
•Say "no" if someone tries to touch you, or treats you in a way that makes you feel sad, scared, or confused. Get out of the situation as quickly as possible.  Tell a parent, guardian, or trusted adult if you feel sad, scared, or confused.
•Report and teach your children to report abuse, bullying, violence, sexual intimidation and rape to the proper authorities.  Identify to your children people who they can trust to help with problems (relatives, neighbors, teachers, counselors, ministers, friends and parents).
•Do not focus on "Stranger Danger;" a predator could be your neighbor or family member.
•Teach your child assertiveness skills, to be independent and to trust their own feelings. It is OK to question authority; adults, teachers, etc. at times.
•Encourage your child to be open and honest, communication is a part of keeping your children safe. Do not teach young children to keep secrets.
•Give children the opportunity to be responsible, to make choices and accept the consequences.
•Teach your child the "Buddy System/"  There is safety in numbers.
 

What are the most important things parents should do to avoid abduction or sexual exploitation?
•Remind older children to call home and to come home at dark. Older children are vulnerable too.
•When children are waiting at the bus stop, if not waiting with them, occasionally look out at them.  Observe their conduct; and view anyone who is not normally in the area.
•A child should never wait alone at a bus stop, especially if the stop cannot be seen from your home.
•A child may not realize that someone who knows his or her name may not necessarily be a friend. Therefore, avoid placing your child's name in a visible place.

•Recognize and accept that your child may face danger at times. Do not avoid or deny the problem. "Bad things can happen to good people."
•Start early and talk openly about sex. Emphasize the idea that children have the right to privacy of their own body. If they feel uncomfortable or that something is wrong, it probably is.
•Let children know that "Good People" sometimes do "BAD THINGS"

•LISTEN to your child when they complain of problems, (abuse, bullying, sexual harassment) no matter where the problem happened: Home, school, church, social events, family or friends homes.

•Stay informed about predators in your neighborhood.
•Be sensitive to changes in your children's behavior.  They are a signal that you should sit down and talk to your children about what caused the changes.
•Be alert to an older child or adult who is paying an unusual amount of attention to your children or giving them inappropriate or expensive gifts.

 

Keep my child safe software uses an online database to gather information about the whereabouts of a child throughout the day.  Parents, guardians and adults who care for children face constant challenges when trying to keep children safe in today's world.  For years, children have been taught to stay away from strangers.  This concept is difficult for young children to grasp.  It is more beneficial to build the child's confidence and teach them to respond to a potentially dangerous situation.

Children aged 11 to 17 are equally vulnerable to kidnapping and abduction.  At the same time that you are giving your teenagers more freedom, make sure that they understand safety rules.  Keep My Child Safe Software works with law enforcement agencies to create an immediate missing child report.  In the event of a kidnapping or abduction, this report can be used to issue an Amber alert.  It saves time for police detectives or the FBI.  Teenagers can be abducted or kidnapped too.  In addition, unhappy teenagers can be more prone to becoming runaway and living in the streets.  Runaway teenagers face special dangers with sexual exploitation and drug abuse.

The Amber alert program is the voluntary partnership between law enforcement agencies, broadcasters and transportation agencies to activate and a missing child report on an emergency basis.  The purpose of the Amber alert is to instantly inform every member of the community and police department to assist in the search for the safe recovery of the child.

There are different types of abductions.  A family abduction occurs when an individual between birth and 17 years of age is abducted from his or her custodial parent or legal guardian by a noncustodial family member who is related to the child by blood or marriage.  This type of the production occurs when parents are divorced or legally separated usually.

An endangered Runaway is any missing child between 11 and 17 years of age who was missing of is his or her own accord without permission from his or her parent or legal guardian.  Keep My Child Safe Software tracks children who have a history of Runaway or noncustodial family abductions.  Child safety is the main purpose of keep my Child safe software.  Using the technology available, a picture of the child, physical description, identifiable mark, emergency contacts, list of school and afterschool activities, and a phone log of the child's friends are all immediately available for police departments, the FBI, and law enforcement agencies.

 



 

 

A non-family abduction occurs when a child, age 17 or younger, is abducted by someone who was unknown to the child or to his or her family, an acquaintance, or someone who is identifiable as either.